How to Text a Girl For the First Time and Make Her Fancy You!

Do you want to know how to text a girl for the first time? Also, do want her to fancy you? Well, I have some real "golden nuggets" here to share with you.


Texting is a massive part of our lives today. It is so big that a lot of people communicate via text or email more so than voice calls, are you with me?

So, you need to make sure that you master the skills you need to get women while texting. When you have just met a hot girl it is very "nerve wrecking" thinking about the initial point of contact.

Many people procrastinate over, whether they should text or call. Let me tell you something, if you procrastinate too much you will do nothing! So, I suggest that a cheeky text is the best option. this way you can gauge her interest by her response. Another good indicator is how long she takes to respond.

So, let me explain how to text a girl for the first time. You need to relate the text to how you met her and got the number. Also the best plan is put a bit of humor in the text, are you with me?

Let me give you an example - You met a girl in a bar and you exchanged numbers. You remember that she was wearing a white dress, but she was adamant that it was "cream" and not white! As a guy, you did not really see a big difference and you had a good laugh about it.

When you text her the next day, say something like:

Hi babe, I am still drunk from the night before, but I remember you had that pretty white, oh sorry - cream dress!

Can you see how that works? You relate back to an event the night before and wrap a joke around it. Also it is important to leave it open for her reply. Do not bombard her with specific questions. Why is that? Well, if you do that she will start to feel that you are "needy".

Take my word for it, you do not want to appear to be "needy", that is not attractive. Also never send another text unless she replies back.

If you want to take it to the next level, you can play some mind games. When she replies, take a long time to respond and see if she texts you again.